Falling in Love with Your Characters - Guest Post by Merry Farmer - Win a Starbucks Gift Card

Falling in Love with Your Characters
Guest Post by Merry Farmer
  
Conventional wisdom in the writing world says that you should write the kind of books that you want to read. That is absolutely true. But I am going to take that a step further for those of us who write Romance. When writing Romance, you should not only write the kind of story you want to read, you should create the kind of hero that you would fall in love with.

Falling in love with your hero is the best part of the process of writing a Romance, as far as I’m concerned. Just like a relationship in the real world, writing a first draft is like those first few weeks of dating. You’re getting to know the guy, his habits and his quirks. You’re exploring those things that drew you to him in the first place. And as the first few chapters develop into something more, you get that delicious, twitterpated feeling every time he walks into the room. The blush of first love is sweet indeed!

The best is yet to come, though. Over time you really get to know that character. You often get to see him at his worst as you put him through the trials and tribulations of the plot. The awesome thing about a hero in a Romance setting is that you get to see him hit rock-bottom, and then you get to witness the turn-around. Because in Romance the hero always rises above the pain of his circumstances. He stands by his woman and sacrifices for love. In Romance there is always a Happily Ever After. And that’s what makes the hero so irresistible!

I love every one of the heroes I’ve written so far. Okay, maybe that borders on polygamy a bit, but each one of them has something about them that really shakes my jig. I love Crispin in The Loyal Heart for his steadfast devotion to Aubrey, in spite of impossible odds and her own rather mean rejection (at first). I love Jack in The Faithful Heart for the sheer joy with which he faces life and the fact that he will do whatever it takes not only to win Madeline’s love, but to help the people who depend on him. I love Ethan in The Courageous Heart for his willingness to change when he hits rock-bottom – perhaps the rockiest bottom I’ve ever given one of my characters.

But lately I’ve been thinking a lot about my hero Michael West from Our Little Secrets. I could make the case that Michael is my favorite hero of all and that if every hero I’ve written was lined up in front of me, he would be the one I would go for. The thing is, Michael is not an alpha hero. He’s fast approaching middle age, he’s not particularly tall or handsome, and he wears glasses. He may also be the most tortured soul I’ve written. He can’t let the secrets of his past go, even when he can see the promise of the future in front of him.

Yep, I love a good tortured soul. And even though my best friend tells me I should stop making friends with crazy people, I can’t help but love Michael for all the whacky ways of thinking and painful missteps he makes throughout Our Little Secrets. He’s a great guy at heart, he just needs his heroine, Charlie, to bring it out in him. I cheered for him throughout the entire process of writing and revising that book, in spite of the facepalm-worthy mistakes he made along the way.

I love Michael as though he is a real person. And in the end that love shows through the pages. He’s real to me. All of my characters are real to me and they deserve all the love I can give them. In his book On Writing, Stephen King talks about how we as writers have to really know and respect our characters, even if we aren’t in love with them, but as I said at the start, I am a firm believer in the fact that in Romance love is most definitely the answer.

So who do you love? Which characters, of your own creation or someone else’s creation, are you head-over-heels for? Leave a comment below letting everyone know. One lucky winner will land themselves an eBook of Our Little Secrets so you can see who I’m in love with and a Starbucks gift card. Good luck and good loving!

Our Little Secrets
by Merry Farmer

Michael West swore he would never fall in love again. So when the beautiful and wily Charlotte steps off the train looking for a new life he jumps at the business opportunity she presents. Engaged forty-five minutes after meeting, married the next day, Michael thinks he’s found everything a respectable man should have. Except that Michael is as far from respectable as they come. They agreed not to ask questions about each other’s pasts, but when the past seeps into their present Michael suspects his passionate new wife is not who she says she is. Too bad he’s already fallen in love with her.

Charlotte Baldwin has a secret. She fled Philadelphia to escape the sins of her past but someone is following her. What better way to hide than by marrying Michael West, Cold Springs, Montana’s enigmatic shopkeeper? A new name, a new life, and a passionate husband is exactly what she needs to leave her sins behind. But when it comes to keeping secrets Charlotte may have met her match in Michael. When a connection neither of them expects catches up with them, the shocking revelation means Charlotte may have run right into the arms of her enemy.

No sin stays a secret forever…. 

About the author:
Merry Farmer is an award-winning novelist who lives in suburban Philadelphia with her two cats, Butterfly and Torpedo. She has been writing since she was ten years old and realized one day that she didn't have to wait for the teacher to assign a creative writing project to write something. It was the best day of her life. She then went on to earn not one but two degrees in History so that she would always having something to write about. Today she is a giant History nerd and a hopeless romantic waiting for her own love story to start. Her first book, The Loyal Heart, is a swashbuckling Medieval Historical Romance involving a love triangle that will keep you guessing.  Both The Loyal Heart and its sequels, The Faithful Heart and The Courageous Heart, are available wherever eBooks are sold.  She has also begun a new Western Historical Romance series set in Montana in 1895.  The first of that series, Our Little Secrets, is now available.  The second, Fool for Love, will be released in early 2013.  Merry is also passionate about blogging, knitting, and cricket and is working towards becoming an internationally certified cricket scorer. 

Find out more at MerryFarmer.net.

Giveaway:
As mentioned above, Merry is giving one lucky winner an eBook of Our Little Secrets and a Starbucks gift card. To enter, leave a comment answering the question asked by Merry. Then, to keep you from having to publicly display your email addresses, please fill out the Rafflecopter form after you have commented.

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The Fine Art of Being Rejected

The Fine Art of Being Rejected

Guest Post by Merry Farmer
 

There are only two certainties in life: death and taxes.  But if you’re a writer, there are three: death, taxes, and rejection.  Yep, if you’re a writer, no matter what your genre, no matter what your experience level, you are going to be rejected at some point.

Ugh!  It’s not something we like to think about.  It is, however, something we have to learn to live with.  Rejection starts early in a writer’s journey and it follows you through your entire career and beyond.  It doesn’t have to be something that lands us in bed with a pint of double fudge brownie ice cream though.  Rejection can actually be the most powerful tool a writer has to improve on a variety of levels.

The first rejection that most writers experience is critique.  It would be wonderful if everything we wrote was gorgeous prose destined to become the stuff of legend.  Unfortunately, that just doesn’t happen.  A far more likely scenario is that we pour our heart out into a deliciously mediocre first draft with lots of potential and room for growth.  Then we give it to other people, whether that’s a critique group or beta readers or blurbs posted online for feedback.

The job of a critique group or beta readers is not to tell you that you’re wonderful.  It’s to give your work a fair assessment and to point out the areas that need more work.  The rejection of your words the first time around isn’t a defeat by any means.  It’s the starting point of a fantastic journey.  I’ve heard stories of some critique groups where a writer has gotten so painfully upset, and argumentative, by that first round of feedback that their peers are afraid to give them any further advice.  That’s not going to get you anywhere in the long run though.

A similar thing happens with feedback from editors.  They’re not going to tell you that you’ve written a masterpiece.  They’re going to point out the warts in your story.  But if you have the right editor, this rejection is a major step in the right direction.  I love my editor (Alison Dasho) for her ability to send me massive letters detailing everything I’ve done wrong in my manuscript … and to make me feel excited and energized about plodding through the hard work of revisions.  I listen to her, work with her suggestions, and ninety-nine times out of a hundred I make the changes she suggests.

Now comes the next kind of rejection.  I was once told that the minimum agent submission ratio was twelve rejections for every one acceptance.  Yes, this means that if you’re taking the traditional publishing route you’re going to get twelve flat-out no’s for every one request for a partial or full manuscript, let alone a full yes.  Aspiring authors may be some of the most rejected people on the planet this way.

Sending out all those submissions and getting all those no’s teaches us patience and perseverance.  And believe me, if you’re going to get any more deeply involved in this world, you’re going to need to learn patience and perseverance.  Writing is one of the slowest-moving, subjective pursuits I can think of.  Nothing happens overnight and even less happens without constant, steady striving towards your end goal.  Even if you choose to self-publish you’re going to have to push yourself.  The effort of being a writer doesn’t stop when you click “publish” on any given eBook site. 

Also along those lines, as anyone who has ever submitted to an agent or editor and gotten a lovely form letter of rejection in reply, the submissions process teaches you how to deal with the frustration of getting an answer that isn’t an answer.  It would be so nice if each agent or editor that rejected us could, like our editor or critique group, give us a long explanation of everything in our story that didn’t work for them.  Instead we experience the joy of learning how to cope with an anonymous no.  It toughens your skin, gives you a sense of the scope of what you’re doing, and prepares you for the biggest rejection of all….

Bad reviews.  The worst rejection there is.  You’ve done all the work, jumped through all the hoops, and if you’re a self-publisher you’ve paid all the money to create what you hope is the best book possible.  Then bam!  Someone comes along and pans it in public.  Break out the double fudge brownie ice cream!

Nothing compares to that first mediocre review.  I remember mine vividly.  But I also think that my first bad review was one of the most valuable that I’ve ever gotten.  I had a very kind reader who included in her review all of the things she thought I had done wrong.  Nothing could have been better.  Because two out of three of her points were spot-on.  I do tend to overuse certain words.  But thanks to that review those words are on my radar.  That reviewer taught me something that will make me a better writer with every word I write … or with every word that I delete after writing. 

The fact is that none of us are perfect.  We’re not going to write a Pulitzer every time.  Not even Pulitzer winners write a Pulitzer every time.  In fact, I’m sure if you were to look at reviews for most prize-winning novels you would find several that question the sanity of anyone who would vote for that particular book.  Not only does every writer have room for improvement, we all write in different styles and have different tastes.  Sometimes our books end up in the hands of readers who just don’t get it.

And this is the most valuable lesson of all.  It’s nothing personal.  A bad review is not a judgment about your character as a human being and an assessment of your right to be on this planet.  Of course, as a writer it’s hard to remember that from time to time.  We like to think that we are what we write and that a negative comment about our baby is a black mark against our character.  Fortunately, it’s not. 

Writing is a sadistic occupation.  We put ourselves out there with an intensity that few people really understand.  That’s why it’s important for each of us to listen to the critiques and to integrate that advice.  The point is to become a better writer and to keep writing.  So don’t let the negative words get you down.  For every rotten review there will be someone out there who thinks you’re a genius.  Don’t listen to either of those people.  Listen to your heart and keep writing.

About the author: 

Merry Farmer is an award-winning novelist who lives in suburban Philadelphia with her two cats, Butterfly and Torpedo. She has been writing since she was ten years old and realized one day that she didn't have to wait for the teacher to assign a creative writing project to write something. It was the best day of her life. She then went on to earn not one but two degrees in History so that she would always having something to write about. Today she is a giant History nerd and a hopeless romantic waiting for her own love story to start. Her first book, The Loyal Heart, is a swashbuckling Medieval Historical Romance involving a love triangle that will keep you guessing.  Both The Loyal Heart and its sequel, The Faithful Heart, are available wherever eBooks are sold.  The third book in the trilogy, The Courageous Heart, will be available sometime this Fall.  She has also begun a new Western Historical Romance series set in Montana in 1805.  The first of that series, Our Little Secrets, is now available.  The second, Fool for Love, will be released in early 2013.  Merry is also passionate about blogging, knitting, and cricket and is working towards becoming an internationally certified cricket scorer.

Find out more at MerryFarmer.net, on Twitter, and Facebook. 

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